You know that moment when you finally get the chance to talk to your crush and suddenly your brain goes completely blank?
(Trust me, we’ve all forgotten how to form basic sentences at least once! 🙈)
That’s exactly why I put together this guide of conversation starters and questions to ask your crush.
that’ll help you keep the chat flowing naturally – because nobody wants to stand there awkwardly trying to remember what words are, right?
I’ve organized everything into easy-to-navigate categories (from casual everyday stuff to deeper conversations)
Let’s turn those nervous “umm…”s into actual conversations
Things to Talk About with Your Crush
1. If you could relive one day in your life, which one would it be?
2. What’s something on your bucket list that you’re excited about?
3. Do you have any pets? If not, what kind of pet would you love to have?
4. Hey, I was listening to this really interesting podcast about ___. Do you listen to any podcasts?
5. What kind of music do you usually listen to? I’d love to check out your favorites!
6. Have you tried that new restaurant downtown? I’ve heard their ___ is amazing!
7. Are you a dog or cat person? I have this funny story about my pet…
8. What’s the last book that really grabbed your attention?
9. How do you usually spend your weekends? I love to…
10. What’s the most beautiful place you’ve ever been to?
11. Do you have a favorite spot around here that you love to hang out at?
12. If you could live anywhere, where would it be? What’s so amazing about that place?
13. What do you value the most in a close friend?
14. Have you ever read a book or seen a movie that totally changed how you see things?
15. What keeps you motivated when things get tough?
Good Questions to Ask Someone u like
1. Who inspires you the most, and why?
2. What’s your idea of a perfect day?
3. What’s a memory that always makes you smile when you think of it?
4. What’s the best advice you’ve ever been given?
5. What makes you laugh the most? I love hearing people’s unique senses of humor!
6. What’s something you’re really passionate about that most people don’t know?
7. Is there a story behind your name? I’d love to hear it!
8. What’s something that always brightens your day, no matter what?
9. What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve ever done?
10. What’s a small thing that makes you really happy?
11. What’s your favorite memory from last year?
12. What’s something you’ve always been curious about but haven’t explored yet?
13. What kind of things instantly make your day better?
14. What’s your favorite way to spend time with someone you care about?
15. What’s something you wish more people knew about you?
Flirty Questions to Ask Your Crush
1. What’s your ideal first date? I have some ideas but I’d love to hear yours…
2. If I asked you to go get coffee with me sometime, what would you say?
3. Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?
4. If we went on a date, where would you want me to take you?
5. What’s your favorite kind of chocolate? Just asking for… future reference.
6. What would be your perfect Sunday morning with someone special?
7. What’s your favorite way to be surprised by someone you like?
8. If I told you I couldn’t stop thinking about you, would that be okay?
9. What’s the sweetest thing someone could do for you?
10. What’s one thing you’d like to know about me that you haven’t asked yet?
11. Do you believe in love stories starting with just one conversation?
12. What’s the most romantic thing someone has ever done for you?
13. If you could hold my hand right now, would you?
14. If I asked you to dance with me right now, would you say yes?
15. What’s something you find irresistible in a person?
Truth or Dare Questions to Ask your Crush
1. Truth: Have you ever pretended to be busy to avoid someone you like?
2. Truth: What’s the most embarrassing song on your playlist?
3. Truth: What’s your most awkward dating story?
4. Truth: What was your first impression of me, and has it changed?
5. Truth: What’s the longest you’ve gone without sleep just talking to someone?
6. Truth: Have you ever had a crush on your best friend’s sibling?
7. Truth: What’s the cheesiest pickup line that’s actually worked on you?
8. Truth: What’s the most daring thing you’ve ever done in your life?
9. Truth: If you could kiss anyone in the room right now, who would it be?
10. Truth: Have you ever lied to impress someone?
Dare:
1. I dare you to text me the cheesiest pickup line you can think of.
2. I dare you to show me the last photo on your phone.
3. Call me by a cute nickname for the rest of the day
4. Do your best impression of me
5. Show me your favorite dance move
6. Post a selfie of us on your social media story
7. Send me a voice message singing your favorite song
8. I dare you to say something flirty without using the word “love.”
9. I dare you to let me scroll through your playlist and pick one song to play.
10. I dare you to describe what you’d do if we were on a date right now.
Sweet Things to Say to your Crush to make her Blush
1. You know that feeling when you listen to your favorite song? That’s how I feel when I see you smile.
2. I love how your eyes crinkle at the corners when you laugh.
3. You have this way of making everyone around you feel special.
4. I could listen to you talk about your passions all day.
5. Your laugh is literally my favorite sound.
6. You know what’s unfair? How you manage to look so beautiful without even trying.
7. You’re the kind of person people write love songs about.
8. I love how your face lights up when you talk about things you’re passionate about.
9. You make me want to be a better person.
10. I didn’t know what it meant to lose track of time until I started talking to you.
Adorable Things To Say To Your Crush To Make Him Smile
1. Your focused face when you’re working on something is adorable.
2. You know what’s really cute? How excited you get about the little things.
3. I noticed you always help others without making a big deal about it – that’s really sweet.
4. The way you geek out about your interests makes me smile every time.
5. How do you manage to look so cute even in your comfy clothes?
6. I love how you remember tiny details about things I tell you.
7. Your random facts and dad jokes are actually the highlight of my day.
8. I think it’s super cute how protective you are of your friends.
9. Your little victory dance when you achieve something makes my whole day.
10. You’re somehow even cuter when you’re trying to pretend you’re not tired.
Epic Conversation Starters For Teenage Crush
1. I’m making a playlist for studying – what songs help you focus?
2. Who’s your favorite content creator right now?
3. What’s your go-to emoji combination?
4. What’s the most underrated spot to hang out around here?
5. If you could have any influencer’s life for a day, whose would you pick?
6. What’s the most random thing in your camera roll right now?
7. What’s your favorite study spot? I’m looking for somewhere new to…
8. What’s your best hack for surviving Monday mornings?
9. What’s one app you couldn’t live without and why?
10. If our friend group was a TV show cast, who would play what role?
Conversation Starter With Your Crush
1. What’s the story behind that cool sticker on your laptop?
2. What’s your favorite season, and what do you love most about it?
3. Have you ever had a really embarrassing moment that you can laugh about now?
4. If you could only eat one type of food for the rest of your life, what would it be?
5. Do you prefer watching movies at home or going to the theater?
6. Have you tried any new restaurants or cafes lately? What’s your favorite?
7. I love your style! Where do you usually shop?
8. That was such an interesting point you made in class today. What made you think of that?
9. I saw your Instagram story about ___. That looked so fun! How was it?
10. I love how you always seem so positive – what’s your secret?
11. The weather’s finally nice – do you have any favorite outdoor spots around here?
12. I keep seeing you at the gym – any workout tips you’d recommend?
Final Thoughts on These Conversation Starters
Alright, friends! There you have it – your complete guide to keeping those crush conversations flowing! 💫
Remember, being genuine is your secret weapon (yes, even when you forget basic words and say “that thingy” five times 😊)
if you enjoyed this guide and are looking for more ways to express those butterfly feelings, I’ve got you covered!
Check out our other quote collections:
1. Valentine’s Day quotes.
2. two-word quotes winter quotes.
3. good morning quotes for him. ( I personally love using these when I’m feeling a bit tongue-tied!)
I will see you in the next one!
